- By Heidi Sameh -
Have you ever felt so lonely that you began to ask yourself "what's wrong with me?", "why am I so lonely and depressed?", "Am I a bad person?", "am i ugly?", "am i stupid?"...
The fact is that you are totally and completely a perfect person for yourself, but the world didn't see that yet and there is nothing wrong with you. If people don't understand you, then it's their problem, and you'll keep trying and trying to please people even by trying to change something in you. Unfortunately you'll end-up unhappy, losing yourself, or losing something in you for someone else...and somethings you lose, you don't get back.
It's not the end of the world if you haven't found the right person to understand you yet, or the friend that stays forever. You will find that person at the end and you will be happy and life will be all shiny and beautiful, but in the process of finding the right person or the true friend don't waste your time with the wrong people.
In our life we meet people from different places, different mindsets, and different cultures and we don't always understand each other and that's fine. open-up to the world because there is so much to see and so many people to meet. Don't just sit there doing nothing and try to open your mind to new ways of thinking...You might even end-up having a friend in each country.
So all of the foolish questions above are not right. There's nothing wrong with you if you're lonely. You just need to make a move and spread your connections. life is more simple than you can ever imagine. Trying will not make you lose anything even if you fail. Trying always comes with a convenient end.