Is he really just not that into you?!
By Salma Galal
"Guys invented the spark so they couldn't call and treat you "badly" and keep you guessing, then convince you that the anxiety and fear that just develops naturally was actually just a spark". A guy once told a poor and desperate girl that genius quote, but do you think that he is absolutely right?
Girls always overthink and tire their mind of explaining boys' actions, but let me tell you that the "stereotype" concept that we follow will lead all of us wrong at the end. You can't judge someone's feeling by just some gestures and signs, as he might be just friendly, nothing more...nothing less.
I have heard a girl once saying "We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk, that means he likes you". And that’s totally wrong! Why the hell would someone ignore you and treat you like shit because he actually has a crush on you, like really??
If someone wants to see you he will say it. If someone knows that you are his favorite person he will say it. If someone likes you he will say it. It's as simple as that!
Stop thinking and whining too much girls - including myself - you need to have more discernment and never let anyone take you for granted. And as Alex from "He Is Just Not That Into You" movie said: